Love is a many splendored thing!

Sometimes people really bother me. It’s like-being asexual means to me that you kind of see the world through a different sort of lens than most people do and I don’t think that you can really understand unless you have a sort of similar perspective. If you lived where I live, you’d be able to see it a lot better.

People here seem to have this need to seem straight. Like, if they acted in such a way that someone might mistake their heterosexuality for something else, my that would be an absolute tragedy! God forbid that someone should be or seem anything less than straight.

Some people walk both sides of this street. They’ll blatantly describe their heterosexual leanings but still will have the nerve to make a joke out of being gay. Literally. As in “I’m gay, and since people can’t accept me I’ll just go kill myself.” And to me, that was offensive. I personally feel like anyone with an ounce of human kindness and dignity would feel the same, but that’s neither here nor there. Things like that eat at you.

The people that just think that queer people have chosen this life don’t understand the pain that we feel. Being offended by hurtful comments like that somehow make us feel less than, like second class humans in the eyes of the people that tell those jokes. Doing that, you’re playing with the struggles that we have dealt with and will continue to deal with all our lives. So what if we want to have sex with a woman, man, both, or neither? It’s for us as the people, PEOPLE, who are living our own lives to decide.

I get that not everyone is going to agree with the way that we believe and how we live and love. But do we really have o make it so much harder for queer people to make it through the day?

They’ve never had to deal with the love for the person that they’ve chosen to be with be belittled and torn down, dissected as something odd and to some even as sinful.

These people believe they have the right to believe how they want, whether religion is a factor or not. So if that is what they believe, than by the same logic we have that right also.

So go ahead girls. Buy your girlfriend chocolates and take her out, kiss your wife and hold her hand as you walk home, steal your boyfriends hoodie and love your kids. If your ace; homoromantic, biromantic, demi, etc. you do you. QPR’s are awesome and just a valid as any other relationship. Whatever you life is like, live it for YOU.

And same to the guys. Honestly, I think you are all amazing. Especially in light of society’s leanings. Keep laughing, keep loving.

Love y’all!!!

#relationships #asexuality #acceptance